Studies show that 75% of kids will leave the church when they graduate from high school, and not pursue a relationship with Christ. Of the children who stayed, there were five factors leading to their staying: they ate dinner 5 of the 7 nights together, served together, had a significant spiritual experience in the home, were entrusted with responsibility in the ministry, and had at least one adult in their lives (not their parents) believing the same things that their parents believed. The likelihood of these factors happening in the home is up to the parents. You as a parent need to be intentionally engaged with your children. Ultimately it is God who does the work in your child’s life, and you need to continue to trust God with their lives.